Let us paint you a picture. Let's say you're going along your merry, bondage fantasy way and your (consensual, of course) playmate is in a not-so obedient mood? Maybe they're being a little too mouthy? Or maybe they just need a gentle reminder of who's boss? Well, there are any number of playful options, of course, but we're going to go ahead and recommend this gorgeous, super-effective set from WhipSmart.

From the designer-inspired Diamond Collection, the Ball Gag & Nipple Clamps set combines two sexy staples - a classic ball gag with 2 interchangeable bits, and a pair of pinch-adjustable black nipple clamps. Now once you've buckled up the metallic blue patterned gag, they won't be able to spit, bite or back-talk, but once you attach the clamps to their nipples, any attempt to do any of those things will pinch back a sharp reminder! The clamps are traditional alligators, you'll be able to adjust the tension by turning the base screw. The clamps can also be un-clipped from the gag, if you or they aren't in the mood.

A note: if you and your partner are new to ball gags, definitely start with the perforated breathable version. If you have some experience, switch it with the taste-free solid silicone gag. Both snap on and off the head band easily. The tighter the band, the tighter the gag against their lips, so there's some room for customization there. As with any gag, make sure to check in often to make sure your playmate can breathe and swallow.

* Silicone gag is just over 1.5"/3.8cm in diameter. The breathable gag is 1.6"/4cm in diameter. Strap adjusts from up to about 9.5"/ (24cm) in head/neck diameter. Chain length is about 12.5" (31.8cm)